Elsie UdohValentine’s Day is usually filled with oppression from couples with candlelit dinners and other grand (and, let’s be honest, sometimes showy) gestures of love.
But this year, we’re prioritising the singles. Besides, who says singles can’t have an amazing time on Valentine’s Day? After all, it’s a day of love and self-love, they say, is the best form of love.
Join our WhatsApp ChannelSo rather than feel left out this Valentine’s Day, it’s time to make the day about you by trying out new things and possibly meeting new people while at it. Here are the top 10 creative ways to celebrate and enjoy Valentine’s Day if you are single.
Top 10 Creative Ways To Enjoy Valentine’s Day as a Single Person
1. Have a Self-Care Spa Day
If you don’t have someone to pamper you, then pamper yourself.
Turn your Valentine’s Day into a full solo spa date by booking a spa session to unwind and relax.
You can even book a home service if you want to avoid bumping into any couple because you’ll see a lot of them on that day.
Whatever you choose to do, make it special for yourself. If you’ll be doing a spa session or maybe just a full self-care routine at home, then light scented candles and play soothing music. You can even mount a few decorations by throwing petals and hanging balloons around.
Don’t bother about doing too much for just yourself; you deserve it.
2. Host a Singles-Only Party
The unspoken theme of this year’s Valentine’s Day is “prioritise the singles.”
So gather your single friends and throw a fun party. It could be a game night, a dinner, or even a movie night.
Ask your friends to come with whatever wine or meal they can afford to lessen the expenses on you, then celebrate your friendships and make the night one to remember.
3. Try a New Hobby or Activity
If you’ve wanted to try something new like painting, hand moulding (who says singles can’t do this too?), candle making, or more, then do it this Valentine’s.
Even if you don’t have anything in mind, you can be spontaneous and just try something new to discover your hidden talents.
You can check here for ideas of what to do on Valentine’s Day and where to do them.
4. Go on a Solo Date
Who says you need a partner to enjoy a romantic meal?
This Valentine, take yourself out to a nice restaurant, order your favourite dish, and enjoy your own company.
If eating out isn’t your thing or if you’re trying to cut costs, then cook a fancy meal at home and have a great evening with yourself. You can also host a friend over so that it doesn’t get boring or lonely at some point
5. Stay Off Social Media
This is pretty obvious. Valentine’s Day is often associated with floods on social media with couples posting about their love.
Don’t indulge in anything that would make you feel left out; so, consider taking a break from social media, at least just for that day.
What you can do instead is to focus on yourself, spend time outdoors, or engage in activities that uplift your mood and leave you feeling happy.
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6. Find Ways to Spread Love
Step out of that selfish zone that is often associated with Valentine’s Day, with almost everyone wanting to be on the receiving end of a gift.
Instead, be the giver. If you have a friend who has needed something for a while, why not give it to them if you can afford it on Valentine’s Day?
It doesn’t even have to be somebody that you know; you can spread love by giving back. Visit an orphanage, donate to a charity or support any other worthy cause.
Just knowing that you solved somebody’s problem in a way or that you made them smile is a rewarding feeling and one of the best ways to spend your Valentine’s Day.
7. Have an Indoor Movie Night
You might need to be a movie lover to do this and enjoy it.
Spend most of the day watching your favourite movies or series while sipping a nice drink with some popcorn.
If you want, you can set up your living room as a mini-cinema by turning off all the lights, dropping the curtains, and just focusing on your movie and self-moment.
8. Go on a Mini Adventure
We are still big on trying something new.
This doesn’t have to be too much; simply visiting a museum or having a picnic at the beach or park will do.
Who knows, in the process of changing your environment, you might end up meeting your other half and then not have to spend next year’s Valentine’s Day by yourself next year.
9. Write a Love Letter to Yourself
When last did you say something kind to yourself or even make an effort to appreciate yourself? Many of us don’t but not this Valentine’s Day.
Carefully think, then write down all the things you love about yourself and your achievements so far.
You can also include new goals, setbacks, and plans to improve as the year proceeds.
Just remind yourself that you’re doing enough and thank yourself for it. You don’t need a mind to do this.
10. Create a Vision Board
2025 began with many people talking about their vision boards and what they want to achieve this year.
Did you do so too? If not, then sit down and make Valentine’s Day about planning for your future. Write down your goals and turn this into a creative vision board by adding images, quotes, and any other thing that inspires you.
Doing this simple activity for just a few hours can be a positive shift in your life and the right motivation you need to smash your goals.
Final Thoughts
Being single on Valentine’s Day is not a bad thing.
Make Valentine’s Day about you by celebrating yourself, your friendships, and your personal growth.
Regardless of what you choose to do, remember to share love with others (and yourself) and make your Valentine this year a day to remember.
Elsie Udoh is an SEO content writer who specialises in writing engaging stories that resonates with diverse audiences. She studied mass communication at the Lagos State University.
